If only I was prepared for how hard life would be when I was a kid. Instead, we’re told a bunch of deceiving lies. I was never told that lending my pencil would lead to it being stolen, or that my white privilege would allow me to have agency that others will never have. I was not told that I would have no choice in many of my life changing decisions. I was not told that wearing masculine clothes wouldn’t be allowed for people who are perceived to be women. I wasn’t told that grades would determine my fate, or that men can do terrible, terrible things. And damnit, I was not told that my identity would be constantly questioned, even by my own blood. We live in a world where deception is used as a weapon, and that’s not okay.
Almost 19 and I’m no where close to where I’d like to be in life.
So your born a girl and you get annoyed when people refer to you as 'she'? What. . .
i try very hard to be respectful, but honestly, you’re just fucking dumb.
do you believe in long distance
absolutely. as absurd as this sounds, i would prefer a long distance relationship over an in-person one. long distance allows me to be less insecure in regard to my gender situation because i’ll really know that they love me for my personality as opposed to my looks/genitalia etc.
wait so do u have a dick
you look like a girl
Oh, really? What do girls look like? Do they have long hair and a feminine face and boobs and a vagina? Do they like makeup and going shopping?
I know many girls who have penises, yeah. And many who prefer to dress more masculine, no not dress like a boy, just masculine. I know many girls who do not look like “girls”, but in fact they are one. Girls and boys do not all look like the fucking rest of their gender, just because society finds the need to make distinctions between the two and create labels.
Thank you, for telling me that. Because I am a boy who doesn’t fit all of the “male” qualifications, but you know what, I’m fucking proud to be me. So, thank you.
My dad has recently started saying “love you” before hanging up the phone and it really does make me happy hearing it from a family member.
It’s scary to know that you could spend days, months, even years getting to know a person, and in the blink of an eye, they could be completely gone.
advice for a strong long distance relationship?
It takes two.
I genuinely feel like I will never be good enough for anyone or anything.